How can something self contradictory be accepted?

You're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't.
You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t.

It’s one interesting contradiction of many, many contradictions throughout the bible. First off, I see so many things wrong with this issue. Marry your rapist? How sick is that? In that case, I can go around and have a wife a month if I chose to. I rape you, you have to marry me. It’s just plain sick. How can this be a good thing? Therefore, it matches this website’s name in stating that religion is just plain bad.

The second part of this meme is extraordinary. Even laws these days have less loopholes. How can that be? I rape you, you marry me, but you’re no longer a virgin, so I have to stone you to death. Is there an exception to the rule because you were raped? Are we considered married as soon as I rape you? None of this stuff is ever explained in the bible. I’ve read it.

Even if it was explained, I don’t think I can agree with the idea of marrying your rapist… forced to live a life with the one person who violated you in the worst way possible. How can this be a good thing? I wish and pray (har har) for someone to explain it to me.